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		<title>The Head Fake</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Feb 2009 21:38:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Randy Pausch was a professor at Carnegie Mellon University. He died from pancreatic cancer last summer at the age of 47. I had never heard of him before late spring last year, where I read about his Last Lecture, which he held on September 18, 2007. So this may be familiar to many of you, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Randy_pausch">Randy Pausch</a> was a professor at <a href="http://www.cmu.edu">Carnegie Mellon University</a>. He died from pancreatic cancer last summer at the age of 47. I had never heard of him before late spring last year, where I read about his Last Lecture, which he held on September 18, 2007. So this may be familiar to many of you, but I still wanted to type up my notes from the summer, because he seemed like a fantastic guy and because he had a thoughtful and moving lecture worth watching (you can watch it at the end of the post).</p>
<p>It&#8217;s about achieving your childhood dreams, which through my glasses is a metaphor for achieving any dreams you may have. The lecture is more than an hour long, so I will just pick up some of the smaller topics (but still bricks to achieving your dreams) that he brings up:</p>
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<li><strong>Drive: </strong>&#8220;Brick walls are there for a reason; they let us prove how badly we want things&#8221;<br />
I like this metaphor a lot. If everything was easy to get, we would have no good way of prioritising our resources, but more importantly our own time, attention, and devotion. Brick walls make us reflect upon what we want and makes us prioritise. Most importantly, however, is that once established what you do want, do not let brick walls stop you &#8212; let your drive and passion climb it. (from about 5 minutes and 20 secs, and perhaps an even better example from about 17 minutes in and forward)</li>
<li><strong>Patience: </strong>Give people time and they will impress you. About 23 minutes in, Randy tells us about one of the lessons he learned from one of his role models, almost in a subordinate clause. I like this, because it is something I often forget &#8212; many of us do. Our believing in other people&#8217;s ability declines drastically with time. Patience is becoming a more and more precious commodity; and lack of patience stops us from achieving our own potential, but also experiencing that of others. Sit back and give people time; they will impress you.</li>
<li><strong>Motivation:</strong> While patience is sometimes required for people to impress you, some people will blow you away in seconds. What do you do to motivate people when they are outstanding and impress the pants off of you? Well, one way, Randy talks about, is to say: &#8220;Guys that was pretty good, but I know you can do better.&#8221; They will keep blowing you away, and they will do better and better. (34 minutes in and forward)</li>
<li><strong>Feedback:</strong> Several times throughout the talk, Randy stresses the importance of feedback, and, almost more importantly, the way you give it. I think this is one of the single most important levers in our personal development and how we help others to develop. I think it takes skill to become good a giving useful and non-offensive feedback, and it takes equal, if not even more skill to receive feedback, use it constructively and not neglect or reject it. If someone has taken the time and effort to give you feedback, you should take it as a great compliment (that someone cares for your personal development) and as a real development area. (fun, but good example about 58 minutes in and a couple of minutes forward)</li>
<li><strong>The head fake:</strong> &#8220;The best way to teach somebody something, is to have them think they&#8217;re learning something else.&#8221; The concept of indirect learning &#8212; or what Randy calls a head fake &#8212; is a theme throughout his presentation. The first example, about 11 minutes 40 seconds in, is about all the indirect learning children get, when they start to go to team sports like soccer. While it serves a functional purposes to learn to tackle, make passes, etc., perhaps the greatest learning of all is the indirect learning that you go through, e.g., team spirit, social and emotional intelligence training, and being fair. The best head fake he describes is 1 hour and 15 minutes in, and I won&#8217;t spoil the plot here, but I can say it works best if you have seen the entire lecture before you get to here.</li>
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<p>Watch the lecture; it&#8217;s time well spent. Beyond a fun ride, you will also feel the seriousness of his situation and the emotions between him and his wife and children towards the end of the lecture &#8212; at least I felt a choke towards the end.</p>
<p>And finally: Did you figure out the head fake of this blog post &#8212; or my blog in general?</p>
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